That's because a whole generation of Black men are in prison, or have fallen prey to the belief that he can screw around without consequences. Black women you need to make your man stand up and be a man. Protect you and his children. Provide for you and your children. Don't let them get away with it anymore. Women teach your boys to stand up and be responsible. To stay away from drugs and committing crimes. Go to school. Get a college degree and build economic power so no one will tell you what to do. But first and foremost teach your children to love God above all else and take them to church. Not some dead church but a church where the Spirit of God is alive and awesome.